all the people in this world are either attracted to some or the other person and we often didnt know what in that person is attracting us towards them . people always ask what do they see in each other that they develop a liking or disliking towards each other.
when i was young my father always asked ,"what do i like in some or what all things do i like".... sometimes he gave me options to choose between things... i didnt knew at that time what he was actually doing... but know as i recall it all was to check my perspective of analyzing things... he wanted to know how i see to things.... he always says that good thing are liked by all. but i could still not get what actually are those things.. i had some attributes of perceiving things and some other have other attributes... like if i see a girl or some other thing and i like something in it ... it may not be that same things are liked by others also...
your day to day approach towards life defines your perspective of seeing things....
this leads us to our topic in nudity... nudity is something which is not talked about openly and has not been debated in public... "MY question has always been does nudity always develops sensuality? " and what is sensuality.. could it make person do grave things which is not permitted in our society...
the other day i was photographs on an fb page which were showing pregnant womens... and they were flaunting there assets.. and couldnt find them sensuous although they were barely wearing anything... some what was that... i then talked to my friend about this and he told me that .... nudity does not always brings sensuality... it takes all other attributes to bring sensuality... " bringing sensuality is a tough job". he then gave a good example that people living in forests barely wears any clothes but do they attract you? and the answer was a big "no".
from that i come to the conclusion that it is all in your mind.. and how you mould it. in my childhood my father told me a story and it goes like that..." once in ancient times girls were taking bath in an open area and after taking bath they came out to soak there body in the sun as the area was in the forest they were unaware of any human presence.... therefore they were little carefree , suddenly a holy sanyasi came out of nowhere and he was not wearing anything... he may be out of his tapasya... he looked to the ladies and walked away.. the ladies didn't said any thing.... a man was watching this from a atop on seeing this he also stripped himself and walked to the girls... the ladies on seeing him rushed to him and beated him... on asking why they didn't beat the sanyasi.. they said " in the eyes of the sanyasi they saw a small child looking to his mother who is changing cloth... but in his eyes they saw the lust of a man towards a girl.. therefore they beat him..."
therefore the conclusion is nudity is nothing but how you see to things...it has been a topic of discussion on how any one should be dressed.. or what should be the dress code of girls in India as against increasing case of eve teasing and rape... i should say there is a need to develop a culture in the Indian society.. where every body has a place... we live in a society where we have father, mother , sister, girlfriend, girl-"friend", boyfriend , boy-"friend",wife. we should look to our mother as "mother" and wife as a "wife". they have a different role in our life. if we follow this golden rule we could live in a happy and stable society.
